telling your child their diagnosis

Hi -my son is 8 years old and diagnonsed with high functioning autism 18 months ago. He struggles with social situations, making friends and staying calm as well as managing his immense anxiety. He has a part time LSA at school.  

We have so far not told him his diagnosis as we felt it would not really help him and might be detrimental. We talk in terms of him having difficulties others don't and needing support for this reason.  However, we feel that it may be time to tell him he has ASD and then linked to this maybe to be more open about his diagnosiswith others as well. (we wouldn't do this if he doesn't know himself).

However, we don't want him to feel labelled and for this to have a negative effect. Opinion seems to be divided on whether it is a good idea to tell a child this age when they are high functioning asit is perhaps not so obvious to others with these children.  Not sure if this post makes sense...hope it does! Appreciate thoughts.  Thank you.

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  • Have you considered letting your child join a support group for asc children.  He may pick up on similarities with the other kids and when the penny drops he may be better able to handle it as he knows he is not alone.  

    Kids with asc can be very forthright with their likes and dislikes and also very accepting and understanding of others with asc, more so then many professionals lead us, to believe.  

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  • Have you considered letting your child join a support group for asc children.  He may pick up on similarities with the other kids and when the penny drops he may be better able to handle it as he knows he is not alone.  

    Kids with asc can be very forthright with their likes and dislikes and also very accepting and understanding of others with asc, more so then many professionals lead us, to believe.  

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