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Does anyone else have this experience, and how did you deal with it.

I tend to use email as my chosen means of communication between myself and school.  Most of the  time it works okay, and I will get a response.  However, there are times when tutors don't respond, despite repeated requests for feedback.

I am finding this perplexing, as some of these emails were initiated by the tutor.  

I am not rude in emails, so I'm finding this deafening silence incredibly rude.

If you have experienced this, how have you dealt with it?

 I did send an email recently saying I was still waiting for a response to an email sent 2 weeks earlier, and the tutor took offense saying that she had matter in hand and would get back to me.  Question is how was I to know that?

I am getting frustrated with this behaviour, it is incredibly rude, but not sure how to tackle it.

The tutors all stick together, so reporting up the chain of command tends to make matters worse.

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  • You have our sympathy - that is so much like it seems to be by far too often.

    We luckiliy came out fine in the end, but the confrontation and the measures the school officials took before this were horrendous and impossible to describe really.

    We cannot complain regarding where we are now, but this was not the intention the school had - they gave us mad out of control scenario which we would not take.

    Surely the education system cannot sustain behaving like this rationality and logic has got to take place.

    Our experience felt like a mine field of strange innapropriate professional behavior - as though it just expected to transfer its weirdness onto the plight of the children and parents - cases they formed were impossibly incorrect and they expected to do it all illegally and in secret.

    What is it all about ? - they seem to want parents not to exist whilst whatever procedure they choose occurs !!

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  • You have our sympathy - that is so much like it seems to be by far too often.

    We luckiliy came out fine in the end, but the confrontation and the measures the school officials took before this were horrendous and impossible to describe really.

    We cannot complain regarding where we are now, but this was not the intention the school had - they gave us mad out of control scenario which we would not take.

    Surely the education system cannot sustain behaving like this rationality and logic has got to take place.

    Our experience felt like a mine field of strange innapropriate professional behavior - as though it just expected to transfer its weirdness onto the plight of the children and parents - cases they formed were impossibly incorrect and they expected to do it all illegally and in secret.

    What is it all about ? - they seem to want parents not to exist whilst whatever procedure they choose occurs !!

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