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Emu1973

Hello All

My 5 year old son has AS and I am home schooling him - his siblings (who are old enough) go to mainstream schools. He is doing well. The one and only thing he would like is a "friend". Now I know that a friend to a child with AS is different to say my 3 year old NT child who has loads of friends. But he can be social and i think regular contact with another child similar to him would really be good for him - any ideas at all as to how to meet other family's with AS kids?

Thanks!

Emma 

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  • Thanks Gingergnome - we are talking about a football club on a saturday morning and i think he'd enjoy that - I think I am going to go and watch a few different ones and see if we can find one that'll suit him.  I know that most children can be very loving and kind and I agree with you - its great to see that :-) a friend told me about her son's friend who obviously is on the spectrum and their group all make allowences, kindly correct his inapporapriate comments or actions with explainations and totally accept him for who he is - she was a very proud mum, and rightly so :-)

    Thanks Dunk - no i didnt have any preconceptions about anyones answers, thats why i asked.  I'm interested in different points of view. The reasons I am particularly thinking a regular meet up with another AS child as boys his age, and some girls, totally "fry" his brain and he gets cross and upset around them, very quickly - Now thats not true about all children, or even about him every time  - just i feel that to go looking for someone he can relate to would be good for him. thats all. doesnt matter if that child has AS or not TBH. And I'd also love to meet up with another mum in my situation for mutual support.

    Your boys first teacher sounds fab, I hope things have continued as well through school. 

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  • Thanks Gingergnome - we are talking about a football club on a saturday morning and i think he'd enjoy that - I think I am going to go and watch a few different ones and see if we can find one that'll suit him.  I know that most children can be very loving and kind and I agree with you - its great to see that :-) a friend told me about her son's friend who obviously is on the spectrum and their group all make allowences, kindly correct his inapporapriate comments or actions with explainations and totally accept him for who he is - she was a very proud mum, and rightly so :-)

    Thanks Dunk - no i didnt have any preconceptions about anyones answers, thats why i asked.  I'm interested in different points of view. The reasons I am particularly thinking a regular meet up with another AS child as boys his age, and some girls, totally "fry" his brain and he gets cross and upset around them, very quickly - Now thats not true about all children, or even about him every time  - just i feel that to go looking for someone he can relate to would be good for him. thats all. doesnt matter if that child has AS or not TBH. And I'd also love to meet up with another mum in my situation for mutual support.

    Your boys first teacher sounds fab, I hope things have continued as well through school. 

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