Risk of being kicked out of school

She's on her last chance now. I had a phone call yesterday explaining how rude and vile she was to majority of staff. 

When she is there, I don't know what happens. She says staff aren't helping her anymore and all they moan about is her work. We have a new agreement, do your work or go home. This is the same if she's pacing the school and refuses to go into a room, she will be sent home. 

Now all she thinks staff care about is her work and not how she is feeling. Apparently, don't know how true it is, but she was crying her eyes out, really overwhelmed, completing her maths work in the classroom and no one gave a crap that she was crying and needed to calm down. 

She thinks they don't care anymore. Her mental health is extremely bad. Last night I had to hold her to keep her safe. She was saying she hates life in general and struggles everyday but still loves school. She said that me and my husband don't help her either. She is not in a good mental place and wanted to take her life. This morning, she does not have those thoughts but is still in a bad place but is already on the bus on the way to school. 

I fear something bad will happen and I hate seeing her like this. I don't know what to do but be there and listen if she wants me. 

School on the orherhand, I am clueless. This is her last chance and I can't see her lasting much longer, mentally and at school. 

If anyone knows anything we can try, that is just perfect.

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  • I'm confused. Your account profile states that you are an SEN teacher for young people with autism. Yet you are posting this as a parent. All the previous posts on your account appear to be about the same student from the perspective of her teacher.

    Are you her parent or teacher or both? Do you have more than one account on here and also post as ? The circumstances and writing style do seem remarkably familiar.

  • if its the teacher then it shows they are trying and thinking of how they can help but they dont know how to so come here posing as a parent in hopes to figure out how to help perhaps. could be also random teaching institution study trying to research on how they can help in these scenerios.

    either way if they have been dishonest i believe their goal is still likely to figure out ways to help and get advice. perhaps they pose as parent to avoid looking unprofessional and not wanting to admit they dont have the answers or idea of how to help. so i still think their goals would be positive as i cant really think of anything negative in their information request.

    might even be a basic data gathering thing/brain storm of ideas thing for some sort of research or information advice purposes.

  • If they have been dishonest I don't think that is acceptable on this forum regardless of the goal.

    Contributors on here (including the mods I believe) volunteer their own time to try and help the autistic community. A certain amount of trust that what is posted is genuine is required for that system to work.

  • posibly the teacher and parent made the account together and both have the password?

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