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Back to old ways phase

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One of our students had an amazing week last week. This week they are slowly starting to go back to 'old ways' and is becoming increasingly more 'challenging' to work with. 

Yesterday, they did not speak verbally from 10am, after they offloaded about their weekend. They would communicate using our hands (we would have one and for yes and one hand for no and they will tap either hand). We couldn't get a head nod or shake. They would also drag staff over by the arm if they wanted to show or communicate something. That was all day, no eye contact either and now has a new fascination with spiders. They were also chewing on everything they weren't meant to. Pica hasn't been a huge issue with this student but they were eating bottle lids, paper, plastic. 

Today, they struggled to stay regulated but was in control and completed as much work as they could. When work becomes tough they refuse to carry on (we have put things in place to help with this). Today they were trying to hit teachers but we dodged them. 

If anyone has any tips or advice to get them to eat and support them even more in the school environment, we will love to hear it. Many thanks in advance. 

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  • From the point of view of an autistic person who doesn't have all the same behaviours but some similar ones, this 'Did really well one week and then really struggled the next' sounds like a classic 'over exerted myself doing things that are at the limit of my ability and then didn't have the energy to manage in the slump afterwards'.

    Longer term often referred to as burnout. Basically it sounds like the 'doing really well' week took a lot of energy and a lot of effort for the student and now they're experiencing the consequences of that. 

    Going non verbal, lack of eye contact, investigating a special interest to a large degree, stimming excessively (for me this also often involves chewing on non edible things) these are all things that I experience in a slump.

    So what this shows is that maybe at the moment the 'doing well' isn't a sustainable option for the student and somewhere in between needs to be found. Decide which bits are the most important. Not hitting people probably very important, eye contact not really important. 

    And recognise that this is going to be a thing that happens when they've exerted themselves and have the net built in so that you're not surprised by the slump afterwards. 

    Also spiders are cool. 

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  • From the point of view of an autistic person who doesn't have all the same behaviours but some similar ones, this 'Did really well one week and then really struggled the next' sounds like a classic 'over exerted myself doing things that are at the limit of my ability and then didn't have the energy to manage in the slump afterwards'.

    Longer term often referred to as burnout. Basically it sounds like the 'doing really well' week took a lot of energy and a lot of effort for the student and now they're experiencing the consequences of that. 

    Going non verbal, lack of eye contact, investigating a special interest to a large degree, stimming excessively (for me this also often involves chewing on non edible things) these are all things that I experience in a slump.

    So what this shows is that maybe at the moment the 'doing well' isn't a sustainable option for the student and somewhere in between needs to be found. Decide which bits are the most important. Not hitting people probably very important, eye contact not really important. 

    And recognise that this is going to be a thing that happens when they've exerted themselves and have the net built in so that you're not surprised by the slump afterwards. 

    Also spiders are cool. 

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