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found out last night my bf has been texting and confiding in another woman because he said i don't have time for him any more cos in so wrapped up in my son, it looks like something is going on as i was looking at his new phone when she text him saying thanks for the sweet message, in on my own but cant text u bummer xxxx he was with me when the text came in i had the phone in my hand and he lied to me and said he doesn't know why she sent it. I phoned her i know her from school and she denied it eventually she phoned me and said they had been speaking about me and my sonmy bf was telling her how hard its been at home and shes been talking to him about her sons behavior but what gets me is they both lied why lie if there is nothing going on? Iv ended it with him because he has lied to me too many times in our relationship just heartbroken that he could do this

  • So true, we had been together 3 yrs and found out he has been having an affair! But my son is all that matters to me and getting him diagnosed that man is out of our lives now

  • Hi, I know it may not feel like it right now, but I think you've done the right thing.  In the end he's not to be trusted so wasn't right for you and your son.  Most parents are "wrapped up" to some degree in their children, perhaps parents like us a bit more than others.  That's perfectly natural, but a partner could feel left out, even if that partner was a biological parent, never mind just a bf.  It's important that any other adult a parent introduces to the household is "right", not just for them but for the child/children.