DLA application rejected, should we appeal?

HI all,

Just wondered if anyone else has been through the same problem.  My son is on the spectrum (ASPERGERS) not yet officially diagnosed but recently commenced homeschooling as he was suffering real anxiety there.

We applied for DLA three months ago and they have just come back and said no!  It seems i can ask for a Mandatory reconsideration!?  Should i ?  My son does need extra care (as i am sure you all understand) but i do not want to force an ssessment on him if not needed and especially if they will only decline the application again afterwards.  I also feel unsure about his entitlement.  He definatly does need more help and guidance than his peers, symptoms varie though depending on his anxiety levels but social skills and eye contact are poor.  pain and heat and colour sensitivity issues, poor working memory etc etc.

Should i try again or leave it be?  Should i have applied in the first place?

Many thanks

Puffin