Anxious teenage girl

My daughter is 14 years old. We believe she is autistic but we are waiting for her to be tested to confirm this. She has always been very anxious, but recently it has become unbearable.

She had a girlfriend and they split up. This girl is friends with her friends and she just can’t even see her without feeling sick or crying. It’s causing her friends to distance themselves from her and this is causing her more anxiety. She has recently started to physically throw up with all these emotions. She is struggling in school as her ex is at the same school and as she isn’t diagnosed yet, support from the school is limited. There is one teacher that helps her, but she ends up staying in his office at break and not going to lessons. She was referred to CAHMS but we are waiting on support for her. 

I’m totally lost of how to help her or how to manage this. Anyone else been thought a similar thing? She hates change and I have thought about trying a new school but I’m unsure if that will help.

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  • Sounds a lot like my child we got turned down on autism diagnosis as my child did not meet criteria from school as they are quiet and willing to learn but won’t do group work!! Anyways that’s why I came here but I see your post my child has a emotional support therapist which has been great but everyday is still such a challenge from feeling sick to being very emotional stimming because of peers and school. Just want you to know your not alone 

  • Thank you for your reply. I’m sorry to hear about your child. I feel like nobody understands how this affects day to day life. As we speak, my daughter is to school today due to feeling sick. I’m finding it hard to keep her in school. 

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