Newly diagnosed and nervous about telling peers parents and own friends about diagnosis

My 10 year old daughter was recently diagnosed with ASD level 2 and mainly has issues with social skills, making inappropriate comments, making and keeping friends. She is in therapy and social skills group at school and I'm trying to find her an outside social skills group as well. While I expected her to have aspergers for awhile I am still coming to terms with it. I have not told many people, even some of my close friends and coworkers about her diagnosis. I also really worry about disclosing this information to parents of kids she is friends with. I am worried they will judge her and in my head make assumptions that they will not want their kids to play with her anymore because she is different and her behavior is less than predictable. She does act strange sometimes and perhaps disclosing her diagnosis will explain why she acts the way she does to others but I still worry about negative judgement. I want her to make and have friends who are role models for her, but it is challenging for her to develop friendships especially as she gets older. Has anyone else felt like this? How have you coped with these feelings? How did you disclose your child's diagnosis with others? 

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  • Here are a few books that may help with dealing with the challanges ahead. Note that Aspergers Syndrome is a term now absorbed into the larger scope of Autism.

    Asperger's Answer Book - The Top 275 Questions Parents Ask - Susan Ashley PhD (2006)
    ISBN 1402219776

    Asperger's Syndrome - A Guide for Parents and Professionals - Tony Attwood (2008)
    ISBN 9781843106692

    Asperger's Syndrome - A Guide to Helping Your Child Thrive at Home and at School - Melinda Docter, Ed.D._ Syed Naqvi, MD (2010)
    ISBN 9780470140147

    Aspergirls - empowering females with Asperger Syndrome - Rudy Simone (2012)
    ISBN 9781849058261

    CBT Toolbox for Children and Adolescents - Over 220 Worksheets & Exercises for Trauma, ADHD, Autism, Anxiety, Depression & Conduct Disorders - Lisa Phifer, Amanda Crowder, Tracy Elsenraat, Robert Hull
    ISBN 9781683730750
        
    Everyday activities to help your young child with autism live life to the full - Debra S Jacobs, Dion E Betts
    ISBN 9781849052382

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  • Here are a few books that may help with dealing with the challanges ahead. Note that Aspergers Syndrome is a term now absorbed into the larger scope of Autism.

    Asperger's Answer Book - The Top 275 Questions Parents Ask - Susan Ashley PhD (2006)
    ISBN 1402219776

    Asperger's Syndrome - A Guide for Parents and Professionals - Tony Attwood (2008)
    ISBN 9781843106692

    Asperger's Syndrome - A Guide to Helping Your Child Thrive at Home and at School - Melinda Docter, Ed.D._ Syed Naqvi, MD (2010)
    ISBN 9780470140147

    Aspergirls - empowering females with Asperger Syndrome - Rudy Simone (2012)
    ISBN 9781849058261

    CBT Toolbox for Children and Adolescents - Over 220 Worksheets & Exercises for Trauma, ADHD, Autism, Anxiety, Depression & Conduct Disorders - Lisa Phifer, Amanda Crowder, Tracy Elsenraat, Robert Hull
    ISBN 9781683730750
        
    Everyday activities to help your young child with autism live life to the full - Debra S Jacobs, Dion E Betts
    ISBN 9781849052382

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