Daughter unable to return to school after September with no taxi

I've been emailed today but the school asking if I have heard back from the taxi company regarding a taxi for my 16, nearly 17 year old. I have not. Due to being 16, we are not eligible for a free taxi but instead we need to pay £1400 a year, which we do not have. 

To start off with, I would take her and pick her up but then I would spend 4 hours a day on the school run, I have 3 kids altogether, therefore wasn't working much and not getting paid enough and anything I was paid went on to pay for petrol. My work is 1 hour from her school. Staff luckily said they would pick her up and drop her off which they have done for many months but this means she is missing out on education, approximately 2/3 a day, which isn't fair for her. 

They emailed saying they will no longer be able to continue this from September and that I would have to do this, but I am unable to. We have asked in the past if she could get the bus but for safeguarding reasons they said no. But I'm going argue this because she is going to be learning to drive soon so why can't she get this bus if she is able to drive a car. She could possibly be able to drive to school but that's months away. I'm not sure what to do. The last option is using her PIP money to pay for this but that means all she getting is so she can get to school, to have an education. It's so sad to hear. She will do anything to get to school, even if this means getting a job and paying for it that way. (Last time she had a job, her first one, she absolutely hated it and her mental health was rubbish) This is how much she wants to stay at school. 

If anyone has any suggestions, feel free to let me know. She's absolutely devastated. 

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  • UPDATE: The school emailed me back saying due to her anxieties she's asking for staff changes constantly especially at the end of the day which messes up the other students staffing and changes. They've asked me from tomorrow if its possible to pick her up at the end of the day if they carry on picking her up in the morning but I have said I can't do that. I have 2 businesses and it won't work. They are having a meeting regarding getting the bus tomorrow but I've kept my daughter updated which is best. Her anxieties are through the roof, worst they've been because she doesn't know what is going to happen next and I'm scared about that she'll do and how she'll respond. She said if she isn't going back in September then she'll have no reason to live because she's not working, going to college or doing an apprenticeship and that she'll just sit in bed all day and do nothing and will give up with life because they'll be no point. 

    In case of the worst case scenario, what can she do when she leaves school? She has 0 qualifications, does not want to be around people, struggles with anxiety. She needs extra support which I'm looking into but I just don't know what to do next. 

  • How far is it ? It's a long long time since i learnt to drive. I got my motorbike licence when i was 16, then i  got myself a Reliant Bobin ...... a 3 wheeler like in Fools & Horses, 'cos i could drive that using my motorbike licence. So when i was 17 and wanted a proper car, i'd had 12mths road experience which i think at the time helped me get my car licence.

    If i was in the same position these days, i think i'd be looking at electric bikes which you don't need a licence for, to get those 12mths experience, until your daughter could get a car.

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  • How far is it ? It's a long long time since i learnt to drive. I got my motorbike licence when i was 16, then i  got myself a Reliant Bobin ...... a 3 wheeler like in Fools & Horses, 'cos i could drive that using my motorbike licence. So when i was 17 and wanted a proper car, i'd had 12mths road experience which i think at the time helped me get my car licence.

    If i was in the same position these days, i think i'd be looking at electric bikes which you don't need a licence for, to get those 12mths experience, until your daughter could get a car.

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