Adult daughter age 23

Think I'm unable to cope anymore.  I have a lovely intelligent daughter,  she's left university and job hunting now. So she's at home most of the time, so am I as I'm age 61 and have a chronic health condition (addisons disease). I'm really struggling with living in an awful untidy house. Her stuff is everywhere even though I've tried to help and talk to her.  She is unable to organise or tidy and it's making my depression worse.  I can't live like this and drssd coming downstairs in the morning.  What  an I do please? 

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