Applying for a statement for high functioning asd - help!!

Hello everybody I'm in the process of compiling my letter to the LA to ask for an assessment on my 10 year old lad. He is higher functioning so his grades aren't way down, my problems lie mainly in his communication and behaviour. He is so easily led, for example he jumped off a building within the school grounds 14 times because some children told him to, he angers at others so easily, headlocks tries to the strangle them etc but manages to "hide" his behaviours from his teachers and letting rip at home instead. I do have schools backing on asking for an assessment but have been told they feel its unlikely because hes a bright boy. Could anybody give me some wisdom on what sort of information to put into this letter or general advise please? I feel so sad that everybody tells me he won't get a statement because he's not failing in his actual progress, why should he not get the support because he masks things and then meltdowns at home instead :( Thanks so much mum25
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  • reading your two posts thats like my son he bottles things up at school, and then home time is like a nuclear war zone animals going one way me wishing i could and my son melting down harder aand faster than ice cubes in front of a blow torch.

    september 8th the schoools so called sen teacher reckoned they had no paper work from the school about the need for sen treatment [reckons they would follow that up]-yet odly myself sand the gp recieved one.i am fighting to get him moved yet without this so called proof from the school they reckon he is fine

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  • reading your two posts thats like my son he bottles things up at school, and then home time is like a nuclear war zone animals going one way me wishing i could and my son melting down harder aand faster than ice cubes in front of a blow torch.

    september 8th the schoools so called sen teacher reckoned they had no paper work from the school about the need for sen treatment [reckons they would follow that up]-yet odly myself sand the gp recieved one.i am fighting to get him moved yet without this so called proof from the school they reckon he is fine

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