Statementing

Speaking personally it was the best decision I made getting my son's statements as it has opened many doors which otherwise would have been closed.  It also gives  you some clout when discussing needs  with school as they are more likely to listen.  

I know many parents who know the child is autistic but don't want to draw attention to them with a statement.  In some cases it has been okay, in others the parents are struggling to get the support their child needs and they just hope all will work out in the end.  I feel this puts Enormous strain on the child.

You also need to consider how the child feels about getting a statement and other family members. My ex has always been against labelling the children and it has affected his relationship with them in a negative way.  

Just a thought find out if any of the teachers have aspergers.  I was surprised but thinking about it it is a ideal job, routine, following your special interest. I had to move my son out of his maths class because he clashed with the teacher who has aspergers.  He is unable to see things from my son's perspective and visa versa.  Neither backs down in an argument as my son sees every one as equal and will not just do as he is told if he sees no merit in it.   So in the end it was better to move him.  

Hope this helps you with your decision .  Good luck.

Speaking personally it was the best decision I made getting my son's statements as it has opened many doors which otherwise would have been closed.  It also gives  you some clout when discussing needs  with school as they are more likely to listen.  

I know many parents who know the child is autistic but don't want to draw attention to them with a statement.  In some cases it has been okay, in others the parents are struggling to get the support their child needs and they just hope all will work out in the end.  I feel this puts Enormous strain on the child.

You also need to consider how the child feels about getting a statement and other family members. My ex has always been against labelling the children and it has affected his relationship with them in a negative way.  

Just a thought find out if any of the teachers have aspergers.  I was surprised but thinking about it it is a ideal job, routine, following your special interest. I had to move my son out of his maths class because he clashed with the teacher who has aspergers.  He is unable to see things from my son's perspective and visa versa.  Neither backs down in an argument as my son sees every one as equal and will not just do as he is told if he sees no merit in it.   So in the end it was better to move him.  

Hope this helps you with your decision .  Good luck.