Help to overcome tactile defensiveness

Unfortunately there isn't a cure for sensory processing issues. If one could be developed, it would save a lot of us a great deal of pain. 

What about skirts? Something looser might be easier to cope with.

Unfortunately it’s clothing (mainly trousers) that is the hardest thing and of course you can’t avoid those. We’ve tried ££££ worth of trousers from various places. What we need is to address the sensory issue itself.

Some more specific details about what you mean by tactile defensiveness would be helpful as that could be interpreted in a number of ways.  

The best course is usually to find out what things are triggering him and then work out ways to avoid them.