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Adult ASD son won’t leave house

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My 18 year old son was only diagnosed a few weeks ago as having ASD. He is high functioning. He has masked his whole life so it was never picked up. The problem is he is terrified & hasn’t left the house in 16 months. We have tried everything. He is trying CBT at the moment but the main barrier is fact he won’t walk in front of us his family, wear socks, shoes or tracksuit bottoms. I wouldn’t mind only the weather is getting colder & he suffers from Raynauds which leaves his feet blue in the cold. Any idea how we move on from this? He seems to have developed a phobia of these items of clothing.

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  • I sympathize with your situation. 

    I do however find it ironic that I suffered almost the exact opposite to your son with my parents.  My mother spent decades insisting that I stay at home and not leave the house.  My father got very angry and agitated whenever I was in the same room as him and when he went out he insisted that we were never seen together.  It's a funny old world.

    At home I don't wear socks or shoes, it's not healthy for the feet or toes.  I have never worn or owned tracksuit bottoms.  However if he does go outside make sure he wears socks and shoes. And trousers  ( or equivalent) obviously.

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  • I sympathize with your situation. 

    I do however find it ironic that I suffered almost the exact opposite to your son with my parents.  My mother spent decades insisting that I stay at home and not leave the house.  My father got very angry and agitated whenever I was in the same room as him and when he went out he insisted that we were never seen together.  It's a funny old world.

    At home I don't wear socks or shoes, it's not healthy for the feet or toes.  I have never worn or owned tracksuit bottoms.  However if he does go outside make sure he wears socks and shoes. And trousers  ( or equivalent) obviously.

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