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Daniel

I’ve been told by numerous people that my perceptions, knowledge, and theory about autism are worth sharing publicly. My theory has been confirmed by numerous autistic people themselves. Does anyone know a way I could share my views publicly?

If you’re interested in my theory my theory is that most things on the diagnostic criteria have nothing to do with autism but are just associated with autism, as autism is not behavioural after all, I believe autism itself is actually a condition of authenticity that makes us more willing to live as our real selves holding onto our own values and morals. I believe this because every autistic person I’ve listened to in one way or another is asking, or even demanding others to let us be authentic. We are not naturally compliant, compliance causes stress and anxiety, and we live by positive liberty instead of negative liberty.

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  • I don't fully agree with what you are saying. Many autistic people are hyper-vigilant towards societal norms, and are ultra-compliant. I think that there are very few people, autistic or allistic. who choose authenticity over 'fitting in', that is if they have the ability to modify their behaviour. Authenticity might be an aspiration, but it is not a reality for most.

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    Martin said:
    are ultra-compliant

    but it is because we are born with many compulsions of various sorts, e.g. reluctance to lie, stammering when speaking in public

    Martin said:
    the ability to modify their behaviour

    it's extremely complicated and I read it is possible to get permanent brain damage if you manage to remove one of those born-with compulsions

    Myself I can lie inside my head, but if I try to say it I start to stutter and never finish the sentence, so you coluld say I'm one those 'sompliant', but I seriously hate it, it made my life 1000 times more difficult many times, 

    we can choose to be obediant instead of compliant, not in everything

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  • in reply to Martin
    Martin said:
    are ultra-compliant

    but it is because we are born with many compulsions of various sorts, e.g. reluctance to lie, stammering when speaking in public

    Martin said:
    the ability to modify their behaviour

    it's extremely complicated and I read it is possible to get permanent brain damage if you manage to remove one of those born-with compulsions

    Myself I can lie inside my head, but if I try to say it I start to stutter and never finish the sentence, so you coluld say I'm one those 'sompliant', but I seriously hate it, it made my life 1000 times more difficult many times, 

    we can choose to be obediant instead of compliant, not in everything

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