Daughter hates men strangers, but Pychologist at school ( Man) Wants my daughter who is 7 to be alone with him only in his assessments. No other teacher there.

Hi, My Daughter who is only 7. Has Mild Autism. She hates strangers especially men. A school Psychologist has come on board due to her Anxiety at school. I only met him once with daughter fr 15 minites, he told my daughter that the second meeting will be just him and her in the room. Should she have someone there for her, if not me..  A teacher.   He seems very pushy, and has even told me that i am posioning her with baby bath products on her skin, he said i only need to put her in the shower/ bath only once a week ?? Not every night before bed. He seems screepy, my daughter has had complete melt down the weekend saying he is creepy, so we have decided we will not put her through the stress. Spoke with another parent this morning and she also said that this Man is odd, and talks so much rubbish. He told her that her daughter see's herself as toxic...A word that this 8 year old didnt know what it meant ? Very worried about this wierdo man, he certainly had control over me on my first meeting...It was not untill i got home thought about what he had said that i felt angry and that he was completly wrong.  My daughter also has selective mutism...He said your daughter is a Tyrant, this behaviour is her being a Tyrant...When it is not, she hates to talk in public.... He said she does not speak due to holding her anger in, and she is worried that she may explode, so by not talking, she is controlling this anger ?  She is extremely Happy, there is no agression ?  He said all this to me, and he had not even met her. I believe he see's himself as a Guru of some kind. He said you are so lucking seeing me, there are only 5 people in the uk as experienced as me.   Very deluded...