22 months old son

My son was diagnosed with autism 

He is so emotional and intelligent and sweet but he doesn't always respond to his name and he doesn't speak at all

The Dr advised us to not do ABA therapy as it is a reward based system 

Please if you can advise me what to do 

I'm lost, sad and hopeless 

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  • The last bit of my reply I admit wasn't needed but I'm an autistic adult and I have autistic children. Not talking and responding to names is the normal. Claiming a problem is there when your child has only been on this planet for less then 2 years or 3 years is utterly outrageous to me. I am totally against any training at this point in their lives. Now if I have offended anyone then please do let me know because I really don't want any part of a group that can harm children's self being anymore. Training them like dogs so they fit into society is wrong ....I shake my head in despair. If I can't talk freely being autistic on an autism site then we really do have a problem. I don't dress my replies up and I'm well aware I can be too blunt but that's me because guess what...I'm autistic and I wasn't trained in my safe family world. I am not having a personal go at anyone, I'm trying to shed light on how society can brainwash parents with developmental goals. My eldest children (in their 20s) speak fluently and sound very intelligent. My daughter was chosen to join in the choir at Cambridge University. This was my daughter who at the age of 22months grunted and ignored her name. Please see the positive in my reply....ignore the anger because its not, its passion. Take care.