Any Devon teens out there?

My 18 year old ASD trans son is starting college again in September. He is leaving his old college and (so called) ‘friends’ behind and starting afresh. Through no fault of his own, he has experienced malicious rumours and terrible bullying at his current college and needs to move away. However, the thought of starting all over again is terrifying for him. He invested a lot of time and effort at this college but to no avail. At first, things seemed good and he was making, what we believed, were some lovely friends. We really thought he had found his people after a very lonely time at school. However, things have fallen apart and he is being made a scapegoat. He would love to meet some like minded teens between now and September (when he starts) to hang out with and to make the transition smoother and less stressful for him. Probably neuro diverse people if possible. Neuro typical kids, in his experience, have been very quick to judge, label and persecute him, sadly. People have been so cruel and nasty and he has even be threatened with being stabbed if he ever goes near some of them again. He is very quirky, an ‘emo’, is amazing at art and plays bass guitar.  He is such a sweet boy, admittedly young and naive for his age, but has a heart of gold and so much to offer. If any parents think their teens could be a buddy for him, please respond. Many thanks in advance.

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  • Hello I am 19 and I would love to help your son. I understand as a fellow autistic person that any kind of transition can be really anxiety provoking. School and college are not typically autistic friendly environments and revolve around constant periods of transition when all we as autistic people need is certainty.

    He deserves to be accepted for who he is, it must have been really difficult for him to cope with the bullying. You say you think it would be better for him to interact with other neurodivergent people. Do you think he would feel comfortable enough to join this forum? He may benefit from a sense of belonging, everyone on the forum is really accepting.

     I hope this helps and that finding his own autistic tribe makes the transition less overwhelming for your son.

  • Thank you for your kind response. I will suggest to him that he goes on this forum. Whereabouts are you if you don’t mind me asking? Thank you!

  • Hello, you are very welcome. Sorry I didn’t read the title of your post properly. I am in the East of England but I would still be happy to chat with your son via this forum.

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