Help. My 11yr old daughter refuses school quite often as she says she's being bullied. I'm not saying she's lying but from what I have seen, it seems to be her perception father than actual bullying. I try to explain to her but she says I'm wrong and I dont believe her. I say I'll speak to the school and she says no as it'll make it worse. I feel.stuck because if I do say to the school I'll lose her trustanf if I don't they wont know. I have done it Inn the past and said please don't bring it up I've spoke to you but they unfortunately did. I'm waiting for early help and CAMHS have just accepted her back in but she hates talking therapy, which is what they're offering her. She's broken her phone a d tablet and says it's your fault because you made me angry. She has always been that way she sees it that if someonw didn't do something to her she wouldn't break it or throw it or have a meltdown. And believe me there is no talking to her about it even when she's calm. Any similar stories would be helpful so I know I'm not alone.
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