9 year old autistic daughter and friends

Hi

I have a nine year old recently diagnosed daughter who is painfully aware that she has no friends. At school she has friends who play with her but if they do agree to come for a playdate it's not reciprocated so she has not seen anyone all summer nor did she speak to anyone through lockdown. Her autistic sister does have reciprocal friendships. 

At school her behaviour is apparently good but at home she explodes. She says she sees others going home with each other but she never gets to go anywhere and gets very upset which impacts greatly on her home behaviour. School say there is nothing they can do as she plays with peers at school. 

I am devastated that this is the situation and wonder if moving schools would help but she would have to go on a waiting list and is in year 5 which would mean changing two years in a row when she moves to secondary unless I can persuade the council to keep her in year 4....

I wonder if you have any suggestions. 

Many thanks 

Parents Reply
  • Are they clubs she was keen on joining or ones you maybe encouraged her to join? That can make a big difference. Being with a group of people who share your interests is very different from being with a generic group of people who maybe don’t.

    what’s your daughters most favourite things to do in the whole world?

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