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Hi, my 3 year old just got diagnosed with autism. I'm looking for advice on where to start my research. There are so many books. I'm looking for a general introduction with practical suggestions to help him cope with nursery and learning to make friends (which he is really keen to do). Also to help reduce hitting other kids (which isn't helping with making friends!). l can see it's worse when he's tired or over excited, but I think there's more to it than that. His speech is coming on a lot since we got a SALT, but only at home, hardly any speech at playgroup. Any suggestions please.

  • in reply to ItsMyMind

    Thank you so much. Sorry not to reply sooner, things have been a bit hectic. We're still waiting for the full report which should contain her suggestions for therapy etc. Luckily the SENCO at the nursery he starts in September seems really helpful and is doing loads of referrals already. 

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    I wonder if tapping into the local resources in your area would be a good place? Each local council has to publish the ‘SEND Local Offer’ which outlines the services and, importantly, the often charitable support networks which are great for handholding, education and supporting. I’m in Kent and follow FB groups on Autism, Pathological Demand Avoidance and Sensory Processing Disorder. I am signed up to circulars from the Kent Autism Trust and am a member of a couple of fantastic Autism charities which hold webinars and support groups.

    I have an autistic daughter and am diagnosed myself. I find talking and sharing experiences really helps me. Did the Paediatrician talk about Cygnet training? If not, Google it and maybe consider asking for a referral; local charities are often funded to do training sessions. Your son’s nursery should also help to signpost you too.

    Don’t stress yourself out too much thinking you have to know it all straight away. You probably already have an understanding of things that cause him anxiety so just listing these out for the nursery will help. Your son is 3 and will change as he grows with his ASD traits. We are all still learning about ourselves too. It’s a journey and you will start to find your feet over time Blush