Advice needed please!!!!

Hi everyone,

My little boy is 21 months and I believe he is showing signs of being on the spectrum ASD!! I have done nothing but read and read posts on the Internet these past few weeks!! He doesn't talk, or point to things. He doesn't respond to his name (never has) he tip toe walks and he hand flaps a lot especially when excited. He has been referred to a community paediatrician but appointment is not until May (a long 12 weeks away) I am awaiting for a speech referral from HV but want to know what I can do in the meantime as everything I have read stresses the importance of early intervention.  He began nursery yesterday x2 sessions per week in the hope that it may bring him on a little and also so I will have another report ready for paeditrician  appointment in May. My gut instinct tells me something is not right but I just don't want to be told he is too young and have the wait and see answer. Can anyone recommend anything I can do daily with my son in the meantime before referral appointments arrive!! Would it be worth paying speech therapist also as I don't know what it's offered on the NHS whilst he is going through this stage. Any advice or help would be much appreciated. Thank you. 

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  • Hi Crystal,

    Many thanks for your reply. Can I ask how your son is now and how are his communication skills? I will definetely look at buying some flash/pec cards and see how we go. My son loves the tv and especially Mickey Mouse clubhouse however not that interested in the mountain of toys we have bought mickey related!! He does enjoy playing with his cars and garage!! He has been babbling lately but nothing understandable. He is such a happy well behaved little boy and has a great sleep routine as he has since 5 months old. It's good to know that we are all not alone. The thing I am struggling with is the not knowing what the future will bring but hey who does?? He gives kisses when you ask him but not sure if that's just to get whoever out the way so he can get back to doing his own little thing!! In the past few weeks he has begun going to the fridge and bringing yogurts to us when he wants one (a very big step for us). I do struggle sometimes with the not knowing and then others I am very positive and as a family we will face whatever we have to deal with.

    Once again thanks for your reply its nice to know they're is somewhere to come for help and advice!

    Take care

    Amanda x

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  • Hi Crystal,

    Many thanks for your reply. Can I ask how your son is now and how are his communication skills? I will definetely look at buying some flash/pec cards and see how we go. My son loves the tv and especially Mickey Mouse clubhouse however not that interested in the mountain of toys we have bought mickey related!! He does enjoy playing with his cars and garage!! He has been babbling lately but nothing understandable. He is such a happy well behaved little boy and has a great sleep routine as he has since 5 months old. It's good to know that we are all not alone. The thing I am struggling with is the not knowing what the future will bring but hey who does?? He gives kisses when you ask him but not sure if that's just to get whoever out the way so he can get back to doing his own little thing!! In the past few weeks he has begun going to the fridge and bringing yogurts to us when he wants one (a very big step for us). I do struggle sometimes with the not knowing and then others I am very positive and as a family we will face whatever we have to deal with.

    Once again thanks for your reply its nice to know they're is somewhere to come for help and advice!

    Take care

    Amanda x

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