Hello
We got a private diagnosis for our 17 year-old daughter. Her GP had referred her for assessment but we were told the wait could be up to two years. She had developed mental health problems (anxiety disorder, OCD and depression) and struggled to attend school. She had been referred to EWMHS (CAMHS) three times and I felt that this extension of her misery, which would take her into adulthood, was completely unacceptable. The private diagnosis has been accepted by EWMHS, her GP/NHS (it is on her medical record) and her school/college (where she now has the support of the SENCO, a LSA and a mentor). She has eventually had an appointment with a NHS psychiatrist (a six month wait through EWMHS ) and has been prescribed medication, which has transformed her.ability to cope with life. She is still registered with EWMHS and is waiting (yet again) for 1-2-1 specialist counselling. No one has questioned the private diagnosis although I had also heard rumours that it would not be accepted. You need to find a reputable clinic. We used one that is listed here called DATS. They were excellent, very thorough and provided us with not only the diagnosis but a 19 page report with recommendations.
I too am completely frustrated with EWMHS. You are right it is completely exhausting and disempowering. I have cried a lot and have had to turn to a therapist for support myself so that I can support my daughter. I know that they are under-funded and under-resourced but they still have a responsibility of care and they have let my daughter down. In her past referrals to them no one ever suggested that she might have autism although she met a number of professionals who should be able to at least raise autism as a possible consideration. She asked to see a psychiatrist to discuss her desire for medication a few years earlier when she was feeling desperate for support. This was declined and she was signed off! Yes I am still frustrated and still very angry. I could rant on for hours about it.
I send you my support.
Hello
We got a private diagnosis for our 17 year-old daughter. Her GP had referred her for assessment but we were told the wait could be up to two years. She had developed mental health problems (anxiety disorder, OCD and depression) and struggled to attend school. She had been referred to EWMHS (CAMHS) three times and I felt that this extension of her misery, which would take her into adulthood, was completely unacceptable. The private diagnosis has been accepted by EWMHS, her GP/NHS (it is on her medical record) and her school/college (where she now has the support of the SENCO, a LSA and a mentor). She has eventually had an appointment with a NHS psychiatrist (a six month wait through EWMHS ) and has been prescribed medication, which has transformed her.ability to cope with life. She is still registered with EWMHS and is waiting (yet again) for 1-2-1 specialist counselling. No one has questioned the private diagnosis although I had also heard rumours that it would not be accepted. You need to find a reputable clinic. We used one that is listed here called DATS. They were excellent, very thorough and provided us with not only the diagnosis but a 19 page report with recommendations.
I too am completely frustrated with EWMHS. You are right it is completely exhausting and disempowering. I have cried a lot and have had to turn to a therapist for support myself so that I can support my daughter. I know that they are under-funded and under-resourced but they still have a responsibility of care and they have let my daughter down. In her past referrals to them no one ever suggested that she might have autism although she met a number of professionals who should be able to at least raise autism as a possible consideration. She asked to see a psychiatrist to discuss her desire for medication a few years earlier when she was feeling desperate for support. This was declined and she was signed off! Yes I am still frustrated and still very angry. I could rant on for hours about it.
I send you my support.