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Delays again!!!! grrrr

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Everytime SENAR send papers to a school they say they can accomodatebounce or bumblebee but have no spaces/or space not available till september!!! Yell

I am soo fed up with all of it now! Dont they realise saying school is full is not a good excuse! With more kids getting statemented this pas few years not all can be accomodated in mainstream education and even if this goverment think its possible it isnt always!!! Think its time some eyes are open wide!!

I withdrawn Bounce from school friday has they want to change his hours and he will miss the beginning of school and wont start till 10.30 and only stay for 2 hours so he spends time there at dinner time! I dont know why they cant just add onto his hours considering he will have his own routine and not share dinner or playtime with any other children (and they complain he dont interact with other kids!!!). He does miss school but I am not able to run up and down 1.5 miles 8 times a day and do a additional school run and support my other kids who have additional needs (I am not superwoman!!). Yet when trying to reason with the school they wont talk. Have asked Parent Partnership to deal with them but they refuse his calls and wont reply to his messages. I just want to scream!!!!!

I have even spoke to EP who recommended they help/support him during dinner time but when i mentioned what they had planned she agreed its not suitable and understands why I have decided to withdrawn him. But now what do i do?? Been advised to seek doctors help (awaiting phone call!). EP gonna speak to her boss who deals with kids out of school. SEN PP wants me to try and take him but doesnt realise i am a mom to 6 other kids!!!! 

Why isnt life easy!!!!!!

 

Has anyone home teached a 5 year old asd child??? bounce has very short concentration and very limited speech and can be hyper. Just with all the other stuff going on I need some help or advice on what I can do with him but be short activities has juggling others /housework etc is a little nightmare!

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  • Thank you crystal12, I have had 2 eldest assessed by SS and both refused to do careers assessment saying I am coping fine!!!! Think they were quite blind edge y the fact the house was very quite limo minimal interruptions from others. (Quietness in this house is unusual , especially with 7 boys!!!!).

    at the moment I am struggling to think straight with all that's going on and hto start start looking at new possible courses or centres for my eldest ones to go to has they finish current ones in June :( ( planning ahead is always required), there support workers are utter hopeless at times :(.

    Got 1st round of birthdays  coming up and 12 yr old wants a load of friends to go somewhere (possible laser quest!) for his 13th. Even my morning off with no kids around has gone due to bounce being off school, so no time out for myself :(. Just no time in the day to arrange more h.v , and bounces respite is not exactly working so have some things to work out what to do next :( , life is soo full of joys crystal12! One day I will get a chance to arrange a careers assessment!!!!

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  • Thank you crystal12, I have had 2 eldest assessed by SS and both refused to do careers assessment saying I am coping fine!!!! Think they were quite blind edge y the fact the house was very quite limo minimal interruptions from others. (Quietness in this house is unusual , especially with 7 boys!!!!).

    at the moment I am struggling to think straight with all that's going on and hto start start looking at new possible courses or centres for my eldest ones to go to has they finish current ones in June :( ( planning ahead is always required), there support workers are utter hopeless at times :(.

    Got 1st round of birthdays  coming up and 12 yr old wants a load of friends to go somewhere (possible laser quest!) for his 13th. Even my morning off with no kids around has gone due to bounce being off school, so no time out for myself :(. Just no time in the day to arrange more h.v , and bounces respite is not exactly working so have some things to work out what to do next :( , life is soo full of joys crystal12! One day I will get a chance to arrange a careers assessment!!!!

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