Transition from Primary to Secondary

My son is currently in P5 (of the Scottish education system) and has another 2 and a half years to go before secondary but we already beginning to worry about how to handle this transition.

He's currently in a mainstream primary and academically is doing well.  The main problem area is temper outbursts which can be dramatic and loud and sometimes violent. Depending on where they occur they can also result in him running off the school premises and taking himself home (which is fairly close to the school but does involve crossing a main road) - that as they say is another issue though.

Recently we have been told that while he is coping ok with mainstream primary his class teacher and the school head feel he wouldn't cope with mainstream secondary.  The primary feeds into a pretty large secondary which has a rough reputation anyway so we were already thinking about alternatives but now don't know quite what to think.

I've been reading up on this area but would appreciate any insights and advice other parents who have gone through similar things may have.  If there's any educational professionals about I'd appreciate any insights from their perspective too.

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  • Hi Potia

    I was worried sick when my daughter moved from Junior school to High School. We have a odd system here and start High School in year 10.  I don't know that I did the right thing but she went to mainstream school.  She managed, did better that we thought she would with her studies and social interaction (homework being a nightmare!)

    When she left school she did a "skills for working life" course with youngsters with different needs (the course described as suitable for students who had attended mainstream school with a statement-or should have had one) and this was wonderful for her.  She learned to cope at the local FE college and developed in confidence enough to  complete a childcare course. However with other students with different problems we encountered serious social problems - another student having my daughter as her obsession.

    I have learnt to try very hard not to worry about things to far ahead.  I have spent too much time worrying about my daughters future and I feel that this energy would be better used to make each day better for her.

    So my advice would be try not to worry - listen to people you trust and follow your instincts. 

    Good luck

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  • Hi Potia

    I was worried sick when my daughter moved from Junior school to High School. We have a odd system here and start High School in year 10.  I don't know that I did the right thing but she went to mainstream school.  She managed, did better that we thought she would with her studies and social interaction (homework being a nightmare!)

    When she left school she did a "skills for working life" course with youngsters with different needs (the course described as suitable for students who had attended mainstream school with a statement-or should have had one) and this was wonderful for her.  She learned to cope at the local FE college and developed in confidence enough to  complete a childcare course. However with other students with different problems we encountered serious social problems - another student having my daughter as her obsession.

    I have learnt to try very hard not to worry about things to far ahead.  I have spent too much time worrying about my daughters future and I feel that this energy would be better used to make each day better for her.

    So my advice would be try not to worry - listen to people you trust and follow your instincts. 

    Good luck

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