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My 5 year old son has problems passing stools.

Peter

My son is 5 years old and was diagnosed as autistic a year ago. 

We have issues with him going to the toilet to pass stools. 

It started off with him only passing a stool once a week but it was very big and didn't look normal for someone the size of him. With this he wouldn't go to toilet he would go away and hide and crouch down and pass it on his hands and knees. A good few times when we cleaned him up the stool would block the toilet.

After reading up about it we came to the conclusion he was stool with holding and the doctor had prescribed laxatives.  After going through 4 different types of laxatives his stools are now very soft and dirty whilst on the laxatives but still can't get him to go to the toilet to pass them, he still goes off to hide and when we find him he denies he has pooped. He could potentially go through 4 changes of clothes a day including when he is at school. 

We have tried everything we can think of, charts, presents, sweets, celebrating, even promised holidays but nothing seems to be working. Having been back and fore to doctors we only ever seem to get prescribed laxatives and we understand this can be a length process but nothing seems to point that we are going the right way. It is also starting to affect his behaviour as every time he needs changed after soiling he doesn't want to which can then sometimes kick off a melt down. 

Any advice / help would be much appreciated. 

Thanks

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  • Hi, Peter. It might be worth pushing for a referral to a gastroenterologist to check whether there are any underlying medical issues. It sounds like the doctor's making the assumption that this is behavioural, but there might be another reason for how he's feeling (e.g. if it's painful passing stool, he might be trying to avoid it). It could also be that he's genuinely constipated rather than trying to hold it in.

    He may be perfectly fine, but it's always worth double-checking things. If there are multiple GPs at your surgery, it might be good to get a second opinion from a different doctor.

  • in reply to DuckBread

    Thanks for your reply. 
    We will mention this to our doctor and see if this is a route we can go down.

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