i wondered if anyone had problems with facebook our son is 24 we adopted him at the age of five with brother he was diagnosed with autism at the age of 20 the trouble being is so lonely he sends messages out on facebook to random girls for friendship he is so desperate for a relationship he looks at his brother who has a partner and a daughter the messages are not sexual but he sent one to a young girl we have told him before about this but he doesn't listen the girls mother has named our son and put it on facebook as you can imagine the replies to her post we feel our son is at risk the mother has gone to the police who say there is nothing they can do if he was guilty i would have thought they would have acted he does not live with us but now with his picture spread around our local area we are at our wits end he doesn't understand the problem and trying to explain to him is hard work we have thought about moving and taking him with us but we fear he would continue doing the same any advice would be helpful he doesn't trust anyone even us thanks for any advice