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8 year old son who struggles so much at school

NAS64719

Hi I have a 8 year old son who is going through cams and it is taking so long I fell so frustrated with the school he struggles with his emotions and has anxiety he has attachment issues with me he always has done he cries sole mornings and don't won't to leave me  he does things wih out thinking about Pensive it and his constantly hurting other children and when you ask him what have you done he says I don't now why I did it. He is struggling this year he don't have much 1-1 help where he did last year Pensive  I keep getting parents coming up to me one was so aggressive has any one got ant advice where I can help him understand his actions I fell like i don't even won't him to go to school any more the school are helpful but there not In a way so when I bring him in sobbing on a morning where just sitting in the office I even start some times becsuse it is so heart breaking for me. 

Thank you 

  • in reply to NAS64722

    Hi thank you for your replay he is going through cams so children with mental health but it takes so long to get a diagnosis I just won't him to get it so he gets more help at school

    He is to shy for groups he won't go and if he does anything it's constant who is going to be there 

    I never got on at school when I was young I was very similar to my son Alfie 

    I worry have I made him like this I keep my nerves away from him constantly but can they still sense it 

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  • I Had the same issues when I was around that age, It's because he feels different and unlike the others he may need to find someone who is on the same level of spectrum, He is very sensitive fragle in socialising environments, because he needs to learn in a more specialised kinda of way, in a way where he is happy to do what he feels he enjoys most.. wheather is a favourite sport or hobby he likes, through pattern, puzzles,videos,building,reading etc.. instead of the normal ways of education sysem, example.... he may like mathematics,numbers and symbols.. musical instruments and sound or hands on arts and crafts.. creation or what ever it is that makes him aligned with his environment..without stress on him or pressure.. soon as you know what he likes and doesn't like.. then you can help him understand and learn so he can behave or feel comfortable around other kids..

    I recommend getting him diagnosed as soon as possible so he can have the advantage of learning his true talents and skills, and so that he can enjoy having fun more instead of being confused and scared..

    and will take him along time to get used to it.. Especially if schools don't know if he has special needs.. you should take him and have a aspergers test.  He could have aspergers syndrome or part of it, I'm currently in a project to building a world class school for people with aspergers and any form of autistic spectrum.. So Hopefully if I can get more support and experts to help me.. we will have prevent this for our kids and generations to come..