Soiling issue

My son is six now and seven in June he has been soiling since may last year. There has been many a reason that has cropped up ie/ sensory, germs on the toilet and not knowing he wants to go. He is not nor was constipated. It all started in school and now its all the time. We ahve tried social storys having cleaning stuff to clean toilet before he goes. We have done a poo fact file. We have tried getting him to start cahnging himself. None have worked. At present i have a lady helping me from a parent class she is from learning disabilites team but her help comes to a end at the end of the class in 3 weeks. My son was refered to the learning disabilites team but they won't take him on as he doesn;t have a learning disability. HE is under the childrens incontience  team but they only have a couple of ideas as her expertise is in the medical side and my sons soiling is behvoural! I am now worried as whats going to happen if the incontience team runs out of ideas who can i get to help?? 

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  • It's the same with my son , we have tried every single trick in the book and we as parents cannot make him stop , with my son he is not aware that he has soiled and is not bothered by it ( we call it his bubble ) :(

    We are getting worried because he is in mainstream school and is not allowed to do certain activities and also he gets bullied and he also bullies .

    His outbursts at school are very frequent ( maybe upto 3 a week )

    We have ask him ll the time and ask why ? But he blanks up out .

    the school pass it off as they can't seem to work it out and have even blamed me because I get emotional :(

    I think every Mother that has a child on the ASD route is concerned and gets emotional because we love our children !

    Even if they change his dose of laxatives either up or down , nothing changes , I have questioned it everytime because it does not help our son :(

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  • It's the same with my son , we have tried every single trick in the book and we as parents cannot make him stop , with my son he is not aware that he has soiled and is not bothered by it ( we call it his bubble ) :(

    We are getting worried because he is in mainstream school and is not allowed to do certain activities and also he gets bullied and he also bullies .

    His outbursts at school are very frequent ( maybe upto 3 a week )

    We have ask him ll the time and ask why ? But he blanks up out .

    the school pass it off as they can't seem to work it out and have even blamed me because I get emotional :(

    I think every Mother that has a child on the ASD route is concerned and gets emotional because we love our children !

    Even if they change his dose of laxatives either up or down , nothing changes , I have questioned it everytime because it does not help our son :(

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