Hi,
I am new to this forum and apologize for starting a new thread, can't find one that quite fits.
I am a 1:1 for a 4 year old who started school in September of this year. The child has a diagnosis of ASD and has a delay in speech.
There were some issues at the beginning with the original 1:1 not being available for the first half of the term and i have been there from half term. I have worked to build trust with the child and we are forming a good bond. I have had a lot of experience with children with differing abilities and this is my first time as a 1:1.
The challenges that we are facing are:
Not sitting for carpet time. I know this sounds trivial but with all the other children sitting it can be difficult for the other children to understand that this child can continue to play while they sit on the carpet. The child has their own spot and we are using the now and next board but so far this has not been working, but we persist. We have gone back to objects of reference. Any advise would be greatly appreciated. So far i have tried books, sometimes this works, fiddle toys, not interested and holding a small toy, again not interested. I do not want the child to sit for the whole of carpet only a few minutes.
Assembly. Initially the child did sit but now only walks up and comes back straight away. Do not have a problem with this as the child does walk up, so this is something i can work on at a later date.
Washing hands. When it is time for lunch the child will only wash hands when their lunch box is shown to them and then only a quick one hand under running water and dry. I have tried turning it into a game, talking to other children about washing hands with the child their and racing. None are working at the moment.
There are others but the above are the main ones at the moment.
The child is lovely and happy, they do have meltdowns and knows to take themselves to their safe area to calm down. We have had episodes of lashing out but these have become much more minimal. The child is mainly non verbal and i have been looking at PDA, the child is showing some signs of this so am beginning to use some of the strategies, so far unsuccessful as i am still learning myself.
The child enjoys the adult lead activities at their table and will stay for a while engaging.
I really hate to point out the difficulties as the child had made so much progress since i have been their, this is what i am concentrating on. The teachers are supportive but sometimes i feel that i should be doing more to support the routine of the classroom and the school day. Sometimes i think they expect to much and i find i am having to defend the child.
Sorry for referring to the child as 'the child' but obviously safeguarding them and sorry for the essay!