hi, i'm Lisa and I've just got back from a really useful meeting organised by NAS surrey about transition.
my question is about my financial situation.
until 6 months ago i was in a long term (20 year) relationship with the father of my 4 children and we took care of all of our children's needs.
since he left i have found myself in financial chaos through no fault of my own and am trying to secure the future for my kids, especially my 19 year old with ASD.
i was turned down for pip, am not eligible for a carers allowance, but was told i should apply for ESA but after going on the gov.uk site i'm utterly confused and have gone around in several circles.
i'm a full time teacher, but am eligible for child and working tax credits they even sent me a 'free NHS' certificate - so clearly things aren't great.
my question is, how on earth do i get more financial help for my son knowing that he is unlikely to become financially independent anytime soon.
i consider myself to be fiercely independent and pretty bright but this system has me flummoxed
any help or advice about this or anything else would be greatly received
i see a solicitor tomorrow and hope they can help too.....
thank you