I've been judged by family, a uni lecturer (who "felt sorry" for me because I live alone. **** you I'm happy living alone"!) and my social worker who thought I "was lonely" and gave me a long lecture about the importance of relationships and marriage (yes the same social worker who has never tried alcohol and judged me for using cannabis), this was a lecture I really didn't need or appreciate.
I am genuinely happy living by myself and being single but the stigma is annoying me. I was actually talking about this with a facebook friend (who lives in next country) if we should get married but not live together just get married so we can say we're married and get family and professionals to leave us the **** alone.
I am honestly considering filing a complaint against my social worker. She is being paid to help me not to judge me. I don't give a *****ing **** if her life is perfect and she doesn't use alcohol or drugs. I don't care if she is married with children. I don't care full stop about her "perfect" conformist traditionalist life. Her life is not my life. She needs to stop assuming my life needs to be like her life. really p***ses me off. it's not professional.
