What does the NAS offer secondary school age children with high functioning AS?

As the title says, what does the NAS offer secondary school age children with high functioning AS? I'm referring to children who don't require care services and they attend mainstream schools, or in a few cases home educated.

There is the NAS website and info about AS but there are also plenty of 'third party' sources of info that in many cases are better than what the NAS offers.

Raising awareness of AS had credibility in the late 1990s and early 2000s when the condition was more obscure and far less well known but I think it has now reached a point of diminishing returns where more and more attempts to raise awareness have less and less impact over what already is known. What is needed now are not large scale mass awareness activities for the 'mainstream' like those from the early 2000s but smaller-scale tightly focused 'infill' awareness for the less clued up corners of society.

Local NAS groups are more for parents rather than children and teenagers with AS. Parents just sit around in a circle and drink coffee whilst talking about ASD. My mother was in the NAS when I was a teenager but eventually she left. Meetings were dominated by parents and carers of children and adults who were lower-functioning at the more extreme end of the spectrum or required care services. Very few parents had any children with high-functioning AS. The discussions were repetitive and my mother eventually ended up viewed by other parents and carers as self-centred and lacking in compassion for people less fortunate than her own son. Eventually she left the NAS when she realised that (the local group at least) provided very little for secondary school age children with high-functioning with AS. 

The NAS doesn't provide any help and support with life skills and social skills for  children and teenagers with high-functioning with AS, which are sorely needed, but instead is more preoccupied with matters of accessing the full National Curriculum and 5 C grade GCSEs. If children are home educated, which is something the NAS doesn't support, then it's hard to see that the NAS has anything to offer.

Discussion amongst parents at a local AS support group (some of which are also members of the NAS) concluded that parents of children and teenagers with high functioning AS who are members of the NAS really are financing and supporting people at the more extreme of the spectrum or those that require care services unless they have any real tangible benefits of being in the NAS. Of course, adding high-functioning AS to the type of people within the territory of the NAS has the potential effect of increasing membership of the NAS over that when it only covered traditional Kanner autism.

  • Still no (proper) replies after a month. Is it safe to say that the NAS does not offer anything for secondary school age children with high functioning AS?

  • NAS11277 said:
    Hello Arran,

    Thank you for your comments. The NAS is active throughout the UK, and has specialist services to support young people in primary, secondary and higher education, details of which can be found on our website:

    http://www.autism.org.uk/services.aspx

    Is it a particular area of the country you are interested in?

    I am referring to ordinary secondary schools or those which have been converted into academies which many have been. I am not looking at NAS owned schools or Cullum centres etc.

    My interest is nationally.

  • No replies so far so could it be possible that the NAS does not offer anything to secondary school age children with high functioning AS?

    I'm going to raise this question on a non-ASD specific parenting forum such as Netmums to find out what experiences parents of secondary school age children with high functioning AS have had of the NAS when it comes to providing services.

    Discussions with adults with high functioning AS has revealed that many of them who did well at secondary school academically, but not always socially, and have good GCSE grades are unhappy people.

    I was once talking to the mother of a man with high functioning AS in his early 20s who struggled in life and struggled to find employment because of AS but had very good GCSE grades. She regretted her decision to focus on academics and fight his corner to enable him to attend school on the basis that he was high ability with the potential to get good grades. She said that GCSEs are just pieces of paper and that the time spent at school would have been better spent learning life skills and social skills instead.

    Other parents have stated that it's best to master the primary school basis in English, mathematics, as they are all that are needed for everyday life and most jobs. Anything else can just be learned as and when needed. It's best not to wreck a child with secondary school because it's all there for exams and grades rather than useful knowledge, and not to fall for the trap of GCSEs whilst marginalising life skills and social skills.