Advice please No.1 - Disillusionment/Motivation

Thanks Robert123. Thats helpful.  He likes watching funny you tube videos (internet settings are safe) and listening to music. Also plays on his xbox. 

We have learnt over the years that if he feels at all pushed then he wont engage. As a result we have gone the other way and things are stagnating.

I think that your suggestion to get him involved without him realising is a great one - I am just stuck as to how we actually do this. 

Sometimes he doesnt mind me joining him on his xbox.

Im just not being imaginative and would welcome others experiences of what works for them?

Thanks Robert123. Thats helpful.  He likes watching funny you tube videos (internet settings are safe) and listening to music. Also plays on his xbox. 

We have learnt over the years that if he feels at all pushed then he wont engage. As a result we have gone the other way and things are stagnating.

I think that your suggestion to get him involved without him realising is a great one - I am just stuck as to how we actually do this. 

Sometimes he doesnt mind me joining him on his xbox.

Im just not being imaginative and would welcome others experiences of what works for them?