Post your achievements!

So many of us - understandably - come on here to discuss our problems, I thought (after reading cricket123's recent thread) it would be refreshing and perhaps inspiring if we had a thread to post our achievements.  It could be anything that feels an achievement to you - something that you hadn't done before, or which you did better than last time, or caused you less anxiety than previously. 

The fact that it might not be an achievement for someone else does not matter!  I'm sure we can all find something we've done that felt like a significant step forward in our lives.  Sometimes we (I include myself) dwell so much on our problems it's hard to recognise the positive actions on which we can build.

I assure you this thread is not about ignoring or minimising our problems (I've been diagnosed with severe depression quite recently).  Nor do I want anyone to feel bad by comparing themselves to others.  It's simply about celebrating whatever feels an achievement to you.

For me, even making this post is an achievement as (though I've responded to other people's posts) it's the first time I've had the confidence to start a topic.  It feels a bit risky - will someone write, "we already have a thread for that" or "your topic depresses me because I feel I haven't achieved anything"?  Or will it just be ignored!?

Another achievement is that a few months ago I stood up and spoke in front of 80 people at a friend's funeral.  As I spend most of my time alone and am extremely self-conscious, that was a very significant step, but I felt that I had to do it to honour my late friend - and I did.

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  • I have made some achievement with my hoarding, selling off some items from a collection that has got out of control. Did spark acquiring some stuff, but I turned down what I still feel would have been a fantastic deal thinking about adding to my burden by buying it. At its worst I bought over 300 items in one year, past year have dropped that down to about 20, this year I have bough roughly the same, but have sold 25. I have decided to let go of things I have become really attached too.

    Still making it in to work is another achievement with everything that has been going on recently.

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  • I have made some achievement with my hoarding, selling off some items from a collection that has got out of control. Did spark acquiring some stuff, but I turned down what I still feel would have been a fantastic deal thinking about adding to my burden by buying it. At its worst I bought over 300 items in one year, past year have dropped that down to about 20, this year I have bough roughly the same, but have sold 25. I have decided to let go of things I have become really attached too.

    Still making it in to work is another achievement with everything that has been going on recently.

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