Post your achievements!

So many of us - understandably - come on here to discuss our problems, I thought (after reading cricket123's recent thread) it would be refreshing and perhaps inspiring if we had a thread to post our achievements.  It could be anything that feels an achievement to you - something that you hadn't done before, or which you did better than last time, or caused you less anxiety than previously. 

The fact that it might not be an achievement for someone else does not matter!  I'm sure we can all find something we've done that felt like a significant step forward in our lives.  Sometimes we (I include myself) dwell so much on our problems it's hard to recognise the positive actions on which we can build.

I assure you this thread is not about ignoring or minimising our problems (I've been diagnosed with severe depression quite recently).  Nor do I want anyone to feel bad by comparing themselves to others.  It's simply about celebrating whatever feels an achievement to you.

For me, even making this post is an achievement as (though I've responded to other people's posts) it's the first time I've had the confidence to start a topic.  It feels a bit risky - will someone write, "we already have a thread for that" or "your topic depresses me because I feel I haven't achieved anything"?  Or will it just be ignored!?

Another achievement is that a few months ago I stood up and spoke in front of 80 people at a friend's funeral.  As I spend most of my time alone and am extremely self-conscious, that was a very significant step, but I felt that I had to do it to honour my late friend - and I did.

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  • Telstar said:

    Hi Oblomov,

    Standing up in front of 80 people is an achievement to be proud of! You're correct, it is a significant step, and wanting to honour your friend was the reason you did it - I can't think of a better tribute to your friend than that.

    Well done!

    Thanks, Telstar.  At the risk of "blowing my own trumpet" excessively, I added another achievement last Friday when I did one-hour interview, on camera, in which I spoke about my adult life with Asperger's, related mental health issues and experiences with GPs.  The resulting footage will used in a video documentary which I hope will help other people.

    Although everyone said I was very courageous to do it, and it was a bit stressful, this wasn't in fact as difficult for me as things that other people do every day!  Does anyone else find it easier to do things that would normally be regarded as very challenging?

    Thanks for the other responses to this thread too.  I can identify with Trainspotter's remark about the deflation that comes after having achieved something, but I suppose the answer is to set a new goal right away, or have one already lined up.  At least we should try to maintain a reasonable level of slightly challenging activities.  I don't think the next achievement always has to be bigger than the last.

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  • Telstar said:

    Hi Oblomov,

    Standing up in front of 80 people is an achievement to be proud of! You're correct, it is a significant step, and wanting to honour your friend was the reason you did it - I can't think of a better tribute to your friend than that.

    Well done!

    Thanks, Telstar.  At the risk of "blowing my own trumpet" excessively, I added another achievement last Friday when I did one-hour interview, on camera, in which I spoke about my adult life with Asperger's, related mental health issues and experiences with GPs.  The resulting footage will used in a video documentary which I hope will help other people.

    Although everyone said I was very courageous to do it, and it was a bit stressful, this wasn't in fact as difficult for me as things that other people do every day!  Does anyone else find it easier to do things that would normally be regarded as very challenging?

    Thanks for the other responses to this thread too.  I can identify with Trainspotter's remark about the deflation that comes after having achieved something, but I suppose the answer is to set a new goal right away, or have one already lined up.  At least we should try to maintain a reasonable level of slightly challenging activities.  I don't think the next achievement always has to be bigger than the last.

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