Post your achievements!

So many of us - understandably - come on here to discuss our problems, I thought (after reading cricket123's recent thread) it would be refreshing and perhaps inspiring if we had a thread to post our achievements.  It could be anything that feels an achievement to you - something that you hadn't done before, or which you did better than last time, or caused you less anxiety than previously. 

The fact that it might not be an achievement for someone else does not matter!  I'm sure we can all find something we've done that felt like a significant step forward in our lives.  Sometimes we (I include myself) dwell so much on our problems it's hard to recognise the positive actions on which we can build.

I assure you this thread is not about ignoring or minimising our problems (I've been diagnosed with severe depression quite recently).  Nor do I want anyone to feel bad by comparing themselves to others.  It's simply about celebrating whatever feels an achievement to you.

For me, even making this post is an achievement as (though I've responded to other people's posts) it's the first time I've had the confidence to start a topic.  It feels a bit risky - will someone write, "we already have a thread for that" or "your topic depresses me because I feel I haven't achieved anything"?  Or will it just be ignored!?

Another achievement is that a few months ago I stood up and spoke in front of 80 people at a friend's funeral.  As I spend most of my time alone and am extremely self-conscious, that was a very significant step, but I felt that I had to do it to honour my late friend - and I did.

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  • Former Member
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    Oblomov, you are absolutely right to make this conscious effort to recognise the things that you can do (without ignoring or forgetting that there are the things one can't do). This is all part of accepting ones diagnosis and where we fit into the world.

    I have had a good week, it seems I will get through my probationary period in my new job which is a great relief and marks a big change to the situation that I was in 3 years ago when things had sunk very low in my job at that time. Things came to a crisis and getting my diagnosis then was the start of the climb out of that hole. The forum has been a great source of information and challenging debate during that time and I couldn't have done this on my own so I owe many thanks to all who have put up with me and my posts.

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    Oblomov, you are absolutely right to make this conscious effort to recognise the things that you can do (without ignoring or forgetting that there are the things one can't do). This is all part of accepting ones diagnosis and where we fit into the world.

    I have had a good week, it seems I will get through my probationary period in my new job which is a great relief and marks a big change to the situation that I was in 3 years ago when things had sunk very low in my job at that time. Things came to a crisis and getting my diagnosis then was the start of the climb out of that hole. The forum has been a great source of information and challenging debate during that time and I couldn't have done this on my own so I owe many thanks to all who have put up with me and my posts.

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