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My Future Life

cricket123

I am 24, i've never had a girlfriend, i have never even held a girls hand or kissed a girl. My penis is really really small. I might have a condition called Phimosis.

How the bloddy hell am i ever going to find a girlfriend, how can i live my dream and have kids because yets be honest no girl will want me if i have a small penis and maybe this condition.  I would love to have a girlfriend who i can take to the movies, to spend xmas with, to have a family with, i would love to have kids because i want to teach them about life, to give them advice. 

  • In that everybody has anyhting from really big to really small bits, meeting a female who is in terms of equipment likewise bestowed is not impossible.

    I have met a few females with smaller bits, and one of them was even offered plastic surgery - which she did not want at all. Her boyfriend became her husband anyway and the last I heard she had had a child by ceaserian section, although I cannot recall if the child was a boy or a girl now.

    Anyway, as far as having a child goes - sperm can find there way through even pubic hair providing there is enough fluid for them to do so.

    Basically, I can add nothing more than Laddie has already stated.

    Have a good one, and hope you find a nice fit and all that.

    D.

  • Hi Cricket

    Wow there fella you are sounding very stressed out. Just calm down and read this.

    I agree many women consider penis size as important these days when feminisim has really taken off big style and has confused male/female relationships. Online porn also places emphasis on "huge" attributes, but I personally can tell you "size does not matter". At least not for me any longer. I can't speak for women but hopefully they will also respond to your post. Come on girls what is the truth?

    Its not how big it is but how you use it that counts so stop worrying about what mother nature has endowed you with. Trust me if all a women cares about is how big your penis looks she is not worth pursuing. There are plenty of other ways to please a woman (or man for that matter) so stop judging yourself by what you may have seen online or heard from others.

    I am below average in size myself but have two sons from a previous marriage and no woman has ever left my bed unsatisfied. Orgasims occur in our heads not our genitals so the most important thing to remember is what is going on in his/her head. Not how big is my penis. I too have been embarrassed by other men in locker rooms who appeared to be "well hung" and proud to show off to the rest of us. But it really is not a problem unless you let it get into your head. Be kind and considerate and romantic when necessary but don't let your penis rule your head.

    There are evolutionary reasons why we behave the way we do mostly sub-conscious I think to do with procreation and looking for the most suitable mates who will guarantee the most successful partnership and passing on our genes. But we have come down from the trees and learned to overcome those instincts I hope.

    If you have a medical problem with erections or ejaculation then do seek help from your GP but if you can masturbate and achieve orgasim then you have nothing to worry about.

    Take care , Laddie.