My Future Life

I am 24, i've never had a girlfriend, i have never even held a girls hand or kissed a girl. My penis is really really small. I might have a condition called Phimosis.

How the bloddy hell am i ever going to find a girlfriend, how can i live my dream and have kids because yets be honest no girl will want me if i have a small penis and maybe this condition.  I would love to have a girlfriend who i can take to the movies, to spend xmas with, to have a family with, i would love to have kids because i want to teach them about life, to give them advice. 

  • I am 41 and have never been in a long-term relationship, either. By all means, as StephenHarris said, go and see a doctor about the problems regarding your penis, but, when you meet the right person (and, although I don't practise what I preach, to do that you have to get out and meet a lot of people) size will not matter to them if they love you.

    The problem with life is that love, like so many things in life, is a lottery. Many find it and live happy, blissful lives, some do not. The secret, I think, is to try to be happy with what you have. Love in your life is a wonderful thing to have, but you do not need it to be a happy, functioning human being. 

  • OK, let's start at the beginning by asking some of the other members here. Do ladies (or gents of that persuasion) really prefer bigger or someone who can use what they have effectively.

    Also, have you seen a doctor about your penis problems?

    I'm 30 and haven't heard a girlfriend either, so you're in good company.