Hi I am a 25 year old boy with mild autism I have recently met a lady at my local group I really like she is 18 the trouble is I am very shy about telling her she is younger a well I have only have 1serouise girlfriend my ex finacee and when we split my life went terrible for years on end
This new lady doubts herself very much her looks skills weight I think she is perfect but don't know how to tell her I like her in case she feels awkward she knows about my autism as I know of her learning difficulties I really need some advice and don't really talk to my mum that much on these subjects
dave
Don't worry about age,my husband is 7 years older than me.and i met him on a blind date as im very shy,and we have been together forever now and have 4 great kids,2 are autistic but we love them all.
Enjoy yourself and have fun, try not to worry,take each day as it comes.(a new day a new start).
Keep going to the drama group aswell as you enjoy doing it alot.
Thanks Justine that's kind of you to say me and ex is along time ago she do sent even live in Liverpool now. Stoke in Trent she lives I believe I don't even know whear that is it was quite hard to get over at the time and all my trust went I lack confidence in alot of areas anyway so its even harder I will let u know any progress dave
Thanks Justine that's kind of you to say me and ex is along time ago she do sent even live in Liverpool now. Stoke in Trent she lives I believe I don't even know whear that is it was quite hard to get over at the time and all my trust went I lack confidence in alot of areas anyway so its even harder I will let u know any progress dave
hi dave, i no its very hard, you got to get over your ex, we all get hurt, its a sad fact of life we have to learn from this, i no you must be sceared incase it happens again, this is why its good to get to no this girl first through freindship, and trust, this way if she isent the right girl for you, at least you havent lost her freindship, justine x
Thanks Justine I was wary as my past with my ex finacee messing me about. I was worried about being branded as she is only 17 so young to 25 in two days lol but its nice too know it could lead to something maybe if i don't blow it lol
dave
hi david, she is intrested in you, she would like to go out with you, as freinds, is good so you can get to no her more, and she can get to no you aswell, its very good to get to no her first to see if she is the right girl for you, instead of rushing straight in and getting hurt, it really dosent matter about age age is just a number, if she does like you then she will want to be with you, justine x
Hi thanks I don't really get the thing when she says go out on a trip as friends I thought that just meant she wasn't intreasted in me in the same way but getting to know someone first is best I don't really understand if she is intreasted don't wanna push it David x
well done , please dont make yourself vunable by giving money away, we all get enbarressed at times in siturations, you over come that, it really sounds possative if she said she would like to go out with you as freinds, thats very inportant, thats how you get to no someone, what their intrests are and your intrests you should be very proud of yourself, please dont leave your drama group, the feeling sick dont worry about that, its becouse you told the girl how you feel, your emoctions on how you feel towards this girl, well done , im always here
Hi well tonight I gave her a present and some money to get a drink as I am a bit nervous to take her I said I liked her alot and she said that's the first time anyone had told her that I told her I don't know her that well yet and maybe one day we could go out she relied that it would be nice as friends to go on a trip somewhare I then felt stupid got embarresed and said goodbye does she like me? Or am I wasting my time if i am I leave my drama group I feel sick please help
