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Finding a Girlfriend

cricket123

Hello, i have autisim and i would really like to find a gf. It sometimes really gets me down because my stepbro/stepsister have partners. My stepbrother drives and she has just got into university.

I am 23 and at college and i don't drive but the problem is the girls at the college are 16-20 and i am older. I have got more confidence and i love traveling but how do i get the courage and talk to a girl because i don't think any will talk to me.

Is it that i haven't found my perfect match or is it she hasn't found me

  • MattsBucks is right, Cricket123.

    If you go out looking for a girlfriend you could come on too strong, which some people don't like. Just try to make friends with both sexes at first and see who you 'click' with. I know that is hard for someone like you because of your social problems but the watchword here is 'patience'.

    Nobody is going to do this for you and you will have to strengthen your determination to face people, even though this seems daunting, but like most things in life, practice helps, even though you will make many mistakes along the way.