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Aspergers Realtionship - HELP

Vincenzolac

Hello everyone,

i'm vincenzolac i'm going to be going for my Aspergers screening in the next week.

looking forward to it.

currently been having one issue over the past four years. I met someone who I instantly clicked with and loved everything about them that they stuck out in your mind so much.

first started all good, wanting to see them be with them, couldn't stop talking to them etc, etc. Then as we got closer in that way or relationship way. Everything just changed I felt like I flipped or *** down to the interest of this person completely.

i'm always in my head thinking of this person, times they make me feel so euphoric etc, etc. And someone I can truly trust and let open to about my problems. She is very understanding.

four years has been a mess as I've showed incredible negative emotions towards her and relationship, friends and ruined a few things so very well in my life quite possibly to Aspergers.

i'm ether always telling myself the relationship is not right and I don't love her or that my relationship is just not right. But makes no sense you can be so head over heels with someone to start wi cause they are amazing and then instantly dislike or disown someone the next. I really clicked and connected with them as they were my soulmate or mirror of myself.

anyone share any related stories or issues there....

thanks

-Vincenzolac 

  • hi vincenzolac,

    when I met my girlfriend things were great at first untill I moved in then things turned for the worst, we both were arguing alot and I said some nasty things etc she didn't understand me and I was to scared to open up to her but I finally did and now we get on like a house on fire, I make time for her needs and she lets me have my computer time.

    speak to each other, if you know what she wants make sure you make time for her and then she will make time for you.

  • Hello I'm Rachel I also have asperges I was in a relationship with someone who wasn't on the spectrum and it was great.  The guy was amazing but sometimes I did feel trapped in a relationship with him and I would often give him a hard time over the most tiniest of things. Sadly though we no longer together but we do still talk as friends over Facebook. I found the brake hard and i do miss him a lot and yes it's still killing me. I don't know how it's possible to feel trapped when all i want now is to work things out with him. I really try and suggest you speak to your partner about how you feel and try and find out what's wrong with your relationship. I don't want you getting hurt like I've been hurt I just wish I could turn back time to when things started to go wrong and worked on them back then. Don't do anything your gonna regret because you will only end up hurting yourself and your partner.