YL raises an interesting question. Could the mods keep to nudging and reminding rather than reprimanding and sanctioning?
I think the other coment I would direct towards ourselves. Do we need help in remembering to try and identify solutions rather than just identifying problems? For example, there has been plenty of criticism of the mods on this thread but have there been enough suggestions of alternatives and examples of how they should have approached issues? We don't take criticism well and we don't want a new mummy or daddy but exactly what is it that we do want from the mods? This is something that I have got into trouble at work with. I am good at vociferously criticising situations, bosses etc but less good at saying what I would rather see happen.
YL raises an interesting question. Could the mods keep to nudging and reminding rather than reprimanding and sanctioning?
I think the other coment I would direct towards ourselves. Do we need help in remembering to try and identify solutions rather than just identifying problems? For example, there has been plenty of criticism of the mods on this thread but have there been enough suggestions of alternatives and examples of how they should have approached issues? We don't take criticism well and we don't want a new mummy or daddy but exactly what is it that we do want from the mods? This is something that I have got into trouble at work with. I am good at vociferously criticising situations, bosses etc but less good at saying what I would rather see happen.