worried about my relationship

Hello My name is Rachel and I have Asperges Syndrome. I am currently in a relationship that I'm really happy in. My boyfriend isnt on the spectrum but tries to be as understanding as possible. My worry is that i'm going to mess up our relationship because i'm being to clingy and sometimes I don't like it when he out with the boys I rather he would be with me which is estreamly selfish. I have never stopped him from going out and never will. I'm also still trying to get over a relationship I was in a few years a go I was with a guy for 8 months and part of the relationship was abusive and he got really nasty towards me on times. I'm worried that the relationship i'm in now will end up like the last one. I really want these worries to go away and I really want the relationship i'm in to work has any ever had an experance like this before and how did you manige. I really need advice here as i'm starting to make myself ill with worry and anxiety thanks.

Parents
  • Detach yourself from your jealousy of him going to see other people NT's are way more sociable than us and seem to find it hard just being with one person at a time. Discuss the problem with him and hope that it gets better. If it doesn't work out such is life and the relationship was not viable to begin with. Then again I've been in a few bad relationships and one of my exes and I often fall out frequently and then become friends again so my opinion may not be valid.

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  • Detach yourself from your jealousy of him going to see other people NT's are way more sociable than us and seem to find it hard just being with one person at a time. Discuss the problem with him and hope that it gets better. If it doesn't work out such is life and the relationship was not viable to begin with. Then again I've been in a few bad relationships and one of my exes and I often fall out frequently and then become friends again so my opinion may not be valid.

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