Annoying things that people say

A question for the autsitc people on the forums:

What figures of speech or expressions really bug you? For me its when people say 'You're joking!' when I've just told them something serious and am clearly not joking.

For instance I'll tell my boss that a bit of equipment has broken down and what does he say? 'You're joking!'. Why does he keep doing this, there's nothing remotely humourous in what I've said and I'm waiting for his instructions on what to do! And its not rhetorical because he waits for a response after saying it and I then say I'm not joking.

Another pet hate is are 'How are you?' when the questioner doesn't really want an honest reply.

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  • One thing that annoys me intensely is when people say about spending "quality time" with their families, friends, etc.  I wish they'd explain to us what the difference is between time and quality time.  If they want more time with their loved ones, why don't they just say that?  It's what you choose to do with that time that matters - surely the time itself can't have a "quality"?

    It's being used more and more by people too!  Very annoying.....

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  • One thing that annoys me intensely is when people say about spending "quality time" with their families, friends, etc.  I wish they'd explain to us what the difference is between time and quality time.  If they want more time with their loved ones, why don't they just say that?  It's what you choose to do with that time that matters - surely the time itself can't have a "quality"?

    It's being used more and more by people too!  Very annoying.....

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