my 6 year olds obsession with dnosaurs and dragons (toothless)

My 6 year old little princess is OBSESSED with dinosaurs since the day she could talk! I love listening to her talking about them, she can tell you literally anything! All the different names of them, whether they are carnivours or plant eaters, their characteristics, EVERYTHING! She has a massive box of dinosaurs which she will line up in order of 'breed' from mummys to babies too! And the way she talks about them with so much passion is just so lovely to listen to!! Has anyone else got this obsession??

And the new one is Toothless from How to Train Your Dragon! She has all the toys and the teddies, even the build a bear toothless as her comfort (she twiddles the tag too when nervous/tired). She tells me (in a very matter of fact voice) that dinosaurs and dragons are not alive anymore and so she likes reptiles, as they are the closest thing to them now.

After being to a psycyatrist and social comms doctor i was advised that I should limit her conversations about her obsessions to a few times a day, in a way it is sad, because i love it as her personality comes out and she shows so much confidence with the fact she knows so much, but on the other hand i understand it is an obsession and a behaviour she has to reduce in order to help with her social anxiety and broaden her communication skills.

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  • omg thank you so much everyone! it is so nice to hear others opinions and saying that it should not be quashed but used in a positive way! it was a speech and language proffessional who told me to do this, as it can limit her vocab etc, but it breaks my heart at the thought of having to force change to her subjects that she speaks to lovingly about!!

    i am planning to take her to the museum this summer holiday as a surprise for her, we took her to crazy golf as it had a new dinosaur theme and she loved it! even got into the whole golf game as it was all part of the same thing, whereas normally she would have got bored and had a meltdown, so we had a lovely day and took lots of pics of her with all the statues :D

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  • omg thank you so much everyone! it is so nice to hear others opinions and saying that it should not be quashed but used in a positive way! it was a speech and language proffessional who told me to do this, as it can limit her vocab etc, but it breaks my heart at the thought of having to force change to her subjects that she speaks to lovingly about!!

    i am planning to take her to the museum this summer holiday as a surprise for her, we took her to crazy golf as it had a new dinosaur theme and she loved it! even got into the whole golf game as it was all part of the same thing, whereas normally she would have got bored and had a meltdown, so we had a lovely day and took lots of pics of her with all the statues :D

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