my 6 year olds obsession with dnosaurs and dragons (toothless)

My 6 year old little princess is OBSESSED with dinosaurs since the day she could talk! I love listening to her talking about them, she can tell you literally anything! All the different names of them, whether they are carnivours or plant eaters, their characteristics, EVERYTHING! She has a massive box of dinosaurs which she will line up in order of 'breed' from mummys to babies too! And the way she talks about them with so much passion is just so lovely to listen to!! Has anyone else got this obsession??

And the new one is Toothless from How to Train Your Dragon! She has all the toys and the teddies, even the build a bear toothless as her comfort (she twiddles the tag too when nervous/tired). She tells me (in a very matter of fact voice) that dinosaurs and dragons are not alive anymore and so she likes reptiles, as they are the closest thing to them now.

After being to a psycyatrist and social comms doctor i was advised that I should limit her conversations about her obsessions to a few times a day, in a way it is sad, because i love it as her personality comes out and she shows so much confidence with the fact she knows so much, but on the other hand i understand it is an obsession and a behaviour she has to reduce in order to help with her social anxiety and broaden her communication skills.

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  • Hats off to you Treeswaving, you could teach the professionals a thing or two. They seem fixated on making us like them instead of helping us develop as autistic people.

    Nldaniels86, I just love the sound of your daughter. She's gained so much knowledge and sorted and arranged it meaningfully. What a  pity the professionals  skate over those huge talents and dismiss it all as a 'special interest'  or an 'obsession'. I find both or their terms dismissive and myself prefer 'area of hyperfocus'.

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  • Hats off to you Treeswaving, you could teach the professionals a thing or two. They seem fixated on making us like them instead of helping us develop as autistic people.

    Nldaniels86, I just love the sound of your daughter. She's gained so much knowledge and sorted and arranged it meaningfully. What a  pity the professionals  skate over those huge talents and dismiss it all as a 'special interest'  or an 'obsession'. I find both or their terms dismissive and myself prefer 'area of hyperfocus'.

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