hello everyone, little advice please?

hi all, my little 4 yr old son, has at last after 14 months of determined fighting by us ,his mum and dad, a working diagnosis of high functioning autism. He talks constantly and it really wears us down. We feel guilty about saying this as other children can't talk at all. We should feel blessed. We ask him to talk quieter - he shouts, screams, sings and is unable to whisper etc. incessant for the 12 hours or so that he is awake. He simply says 'I can't' and I believe that he really has no concept of it at all. Was suggested to me that we buy him some ear defenders (head set) with no noise coming through, as he may be trying to drown out the sensory overload by talking over it and making himself be heard if you see what I mean? Has anyone tried this, have telephoned psychologist but shes not got back to me. If not, anything else we could try please? Thank you all and have a pleasant weekend.

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    Presumably they have checked his hearing?

    This behaviour is typical of some autistic people who don't really understand that communication is a two-way process where each side has to wait for, and be interested in, what the other person has to say. The psychologists should be able to help you to train him to be better at this. Perhaps you can explain that taking turns is one of the rules of conversation that everyone has to follow. Did you see Born Naughty this week where the mother of the autistic child was shown how to make games of some things and to use rules to get her child to be better in social situations?

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  • Former Member
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    Presumably they have checked his hearing?

    This behaviour is typical of some autistic people who don't really understand that communication is a two-way process where each side has to wait for, and be interested in, what the other person has to say. The psychologists should be able to help you to train him to be better at this. Perhaps you can explain that taking turns is one of the rules of conversation that everyone has to follow. Did you see Born Naughty this week where the mother of the autistic child was shown how to make games of some things and to use rules to get her child to be better in social situations?

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