One of my boys is definitely orally sensitive, but I've never really thought of the other being so (age 18). Yesterday I had quite a job getting him in the chair. My Dentist is lovely and knows all about his condition, which is great. He explains things, takes things slowly and is perhaps the most gentle I've come across. We had to have cuddles (My son and I, not the dentist :) ) and I had to hold him during the whole process, bless.
I've taken care of their appointments religiously over the years and tried a number of ploys to get the other to brush more regularly, even bribery, but to no avail. Yesterday, the filling was caught in time and only tiny, but I can't help feeling that when I'm no longer around, oral hygiene will be something that is rarely visited by either. Years of corrective dentistry wasted all through fear and anxiety. You'd think by now someone would have found a better solution for those on the spectrum.......